Thursday, February 17, 2011

V love advice: Sharing successes and failures

"I promise to be faithful in prosperity and in adversity," says the rite of marriage. But you do not marry to take these words as the fifth pillar of the couple. Takes note of the fifth of our love advice. For once and without a precedent, even science agrees with the Church: A Study of Northwestern University found that strong parejasmás are those in which each supports the other members for to become what it wants to and achieve your professional and life goals.

It is not new: the experts in emotional intelligence Daniel Goleman and Paul Ekman and discovered the influence of emotional stability in labor productivity, however brilliant, the people who are not able to build a stable and healthy emotional life, sink into infighting that sabotage their effectiveness in working life.

Psychologist Carmen Bermejo said that "it is very important that your partner feel understood and supported, you feel that you can count on you when you need not enter into consideration or value judgments, you see that you are happy with their achievements and share the difficulties that cause failures or disappointments on the road, in a word, that naveguéis both in the same boat ...".

As the saying goes, "behind every great man is a great woman." And vice versa. Valentín Lacalle psychologist says that "before it was so, but today, working men and women, the couple is more than ever a team: if there is a failure must be shared, because it is already hard enough working life to not show as you are with your partner, and if successful, is to assume that the two, but one gets the glory, the other always has the same degree of importance.

" And when, today, power and success for women is so sexy. According to a study match. com on the perfect woman, 64.5% of men prefer women with professional success. And there's nothing stronger than a couple of wealthy achievers. If we look at the Forbes magazine list of richest couples in Hollywood, we see that all are very durable and good avenues: Jay-Z and Beyonce, Harrison Ford and Calista Flockhart, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes ...

In recent times are blurring the roles of men and women, both at home and at work. And this is something that reflect the latest research: a study in Spain by the SM Foundation has revealed that 75% of women "attaches great importance to economic independence and have a job, above having a partner or being a mother ".

On the contrary, more and more men opting to live more and work less, they point to downshifting, a trend that in the words of Vicki Robin, one of its theoretical advocates "reduce consumption and find better ways to enjoy of life. " So it should not scare your boyfriend decides to leave when you accept a management position and win a bundle.

Every cloud has a silver lining, according a report by the Foundation of Savings Banks, "men are more involved in housework when his wife has a job and higher income levels."

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