Monday, May 9, 2011

Cinderella and Princesses.

What is the wedding of a princess, a prince, that excites us so much? We imagine being her. Do we see a childish fantasy incarnate? What do we wish them eternal happiness to two complete strangers rich and beautiful? Just as many want the intense dramas of Jane Austen and the romantic comedies end happily, because we identify with the woman in love with the jilted or the struggling to get love.

The same stuff we love fairy tales. We see reflected in these stories desires latent in us, sometimes stronger, than we recognize. We want that dress, that mansion ... but above all we want is to live a love story, the perfect romance. And that is fine, what I was going to say the amorque was not good, the engine of life, what moves our spirit and all the really beautiful thing is created in the world, the noblest acts of most inspired creations and higher thoughts.

Love makes us a glimpse of the harmony of the cosmos, connects us with the creative energies of the world. What is not healthy they are obsessed with the tagline of "perfect love", the setting of the story. Ideal, abstract, alien, lived for others, unreal. We can not be longing for something that does not exist.

The princes of the television are human after all, with other problems but with the same fears and doubts that any of us. We will not miss the best of life demands no sense - my partner has to be perfect, I have seem, my life too-delusional expectations heiress and other nonsense that we often accept the media, the tabloids, of this consumer society of ours, in short, slight, but inexorably, almost continually asks us to want more.

More what? Stay a little about yourself when you wish irrational assault on mansions, luxury, articles in major magazines and waltzes in idyllic settings. Are you going to feel failed by living daily in a notice of expensive perfume, a soap-opera romance? Take time to meditate until a minute of peace to free you from such piping childish self-pity and wild ambitions that you could hold in your subconscious and connect with your true desires, smiles when you finish the session.

Feel the excitement through your body. Visualize your partner walking the beach with this guy in the office that you love and keep smiling, because the best of this life is real, exists and what you have at hand. Much more intense, devastating, beautiful, terrible and sweeping than any decor, any story, any story.

By Dr Michelle Nielsen Photo: Gtres

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