As modern women and understanding, our duty is to give men what they need most: help to look good and feel great. By Alicia Misrahi of The Red Suitcase At the heart of every man beats a knight errant, so that they feel made, we must make express. Women seek understanding, while men seek recognition. The women we loved when they understand us and are loving, whereas men feel loved when they admire and they need.
Who said that women have to stand on our own at any time and in any situation? Being independent does not mean self-sufficiency. Therefore, we can and should allow us to open the door men, let us go first, carrying heavy loads, we cede the seat on public transport, bring us drinks at parties, we ask if we need anything and we provide it We changed the wheel in case of a puncture, we fill the glass in the restaurant ...
With these appointments we help ourselves, for our life easier, we make them feel good, and though it may seem paradoxical, we maintain control, because it will demonstrate at all costs that do not need to produce the opposite effect. Security shows a man, a small dose domain to do things for you, because this attitude means that efforts must continue, "and a bit of detachment and you'll have at your feet.
Why, if in general, women has gone so wrong with absolute dedication did not test with a soft mild punishment of indifference? Do not we realize that if we reject the samples of chivalry (or courtesy) we are charged with the worst of feminism and the worst of machismo? Our smile, with the full range of expressions, from a hint that indicates interest or mischief to open and honest smile that can be read as a promise or as an expression of our unique charm, "is our best weapon to seek and to thank .
Before a female smile, give a man the best of himself, protection, advice, logistical support, help, chivalry, an invitation to the movies or dinner ... At this time, establishes a symbiotic relationship where both benefit. Well understood chivalry makes us strong. The world is full of men who want to impress us with his strength, his intelligence, organizational skills, talents etc.
If a man known offers help to carry your bags, go home purchase, change a plug, fix the bike or do any management for you ... Always say yes! I do not feel bad ... Especially if the man you have a relationship. When he offers to do something, tell him that his initiative is not neutered and can mean that never again offer to do anything else.
No matter if you stack the dishes wrong or does not leave the house spotless or forget half the shopping list, it is important to do so. Or would you rather damn to do so provided you? Not to mention that some men have developed the ability to harm the tasks they do not re-order to make them ...
We appreciate your patience and effort enthusiastically. If they see that the strategy does not serve its alleged uselessness, they'll do better next time. A smile of recognition and a compliment like "you're so strong" or "you rock" or "has been perfect" enough to make them happy. However, do not give in always: thanks and praise most of their efforts, but, on occasion, manage them a little blow to remain vigilant and continue their efforts.
Yes, chivalry well understood makes us strong. 
Who said that women have to stand on our own at any time and in any situation? Being independent does not mean self-sufficiency. Therefore, we can and should allow us to open the door men, let us go first, carrying heavy loads, we cede the seat on public transport, bring us drinks at parties, we ask if we need anything and we provide it We changed the wheel in case of a puncture, we fill the glass in the restaurant ...
With these appointments we help ourselves, for our life easier, we make them feel good, and though it may seem paradoxical, we maintain control, because it will demonstrate at all costs that do not need to produce the opposite effect. Security shows a man, a small dose domain to do things for you, because this attitude means that efforts must continue, "and a bit of detachment and you'll have at your feet.
Why, if in general, women has gone so wrong with absolute dedication did not test with a soft mild punishment of indifference? Do not we realize that if we reject the samples of chivalry (or courtesy) we are charged with the worst of feminism and the worst of machismo? Our smile, with the full range of expressions, from a hint that indicates interest or mischief to open and honest smile that can be read as a promise or as an expression of our unique charm, "is our best weapon to seek and to thank .
Before a female smile, give a man the best of himself, protection, advice, logistical support, help, chivalry, an invitation to the movies or dinner ... At this time, establishes a symbiotic relationship where both benefit. Well understood chivalry makes us strong. The world is full of men who want to impress us with his strength, his intelligence, organizational skills, talents etc.
If a man known offers help to carry your bags, go home purchase, change a plug, fix the bike or do any management for you ... Always say yes! I do not feel bad ... Especially if the man you have a relationship. When he offers to do something, tell him that his initiative is not neutered and can mean that never again offer to do anything else.
No matter if you stack the dishes wrong or does not leave the house spotless or forget half the shopping list, it is important to do so. Or would you rather damn to do so provided you? Not to mention that some men have developed the ability to harm the tasks they do not re-order to make them ...
We appreciate your patience and effort enthusiastically. If they see that the strategy does not serve its alleged uselessness, they'll do better next time. A smile of recognition and a compliment like "you're so strong" or "you rock" or "has been perfect" enough to make them happy. However, do not give in always: thanks and praise most of their efforts, but, on occasion, manage them a little blow to remain vigilant and continue their efforts.
Yes, chivalry well understood makes us strong.
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