Friday, March 4, 2011

Happiness is in the fight

Yes, congratulations are in sacrifice. Find out why. The stress has very bad reputation. The difficulties, the sacrifice is something we consider wrong, a disgrace, not for what it is, part and parcel of our existence. Because it is also who we are as we are, girls, basically we will go. We are well made, man is then only really enjoy a vacation if we worked hard, we are satisfied after only a test if we have given everything.

We must be clear that it is a mistake, which is unnatural and that only leads to unhappiness avoid our obligations, giving up what we want to see him very hard-delude telling us that we fail, it is common-or believe that if something easy it is it's not for us. It is wrong to require facilities to life, pretending to live in a comfortable bubble of security without hard choices and sacrifices.

When we talk about problems, will, we are talking about living. One thing is going like crazy you do not get every day life of work to pick up your child and then running to a gruesome seminar on new technologies to make dinner after your mother and end the day saving your relationship partner (you need then is a meditation workshop, find yourself and control your self-imposed) and quite another to wear you down or give up before you do anything, angry or give in to the cost of elections or the difficulties of what we or want to do ...

Before talking about their satisfaction, learning to dance costs embarrassment and insecurity, work hard to find a good consistency and determination, having a child costs the pain of childbirth and raise thousand sleepless nights ... What really fills our lives difficult effort, courage and love, or all three.

"The only safe place where a ship is in port, but of course ... the boats are not made for that," said Louise Hay. He is right. Eventually they are happier facing, fighting and making decisions that avoid the pain that life requires. Only then, fighting for what we want, we end up with women who want to be, we're really only now we are happy.

By Dr Michelle Nielsen

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