Friday, April 8, 2011

4 tips for living with a partner

It is time dream finally you go and live with your partner. You are wanting to spend every waking minute with him, no more having to go with clothes from one place to another, you can cuddle every night ... Wake up! This important step you can also bring headaches. Your dream can become a nightmare if not before you have everything under control.

Living together is a crucial moment in any relationship. Months have you been thinking about it and you are sure that from now going to be much closer. But one thing is certain, the Spanish boys, generally, are very spoiled, and are in danger of becoming her roommate or worse, his mother.

Do not let love blind you and put the batteries. Here are some tips for living with a partner and that your home is not a ruin. First, talk about what you expect each of coexistence. Leave it all clear and make sure that this is a step towards building a future together. You know you're going to take around 24 hours? A tip: take a piece of paper and write a few requests of each, so when there are complaints or you may have to plan something, be it in writing.

You can do this with the cleanup standards, shift kitchen ... sounds like a teenager, but you will avoid many problems. Be clear how you will pay the rent, the costs of the floor, if you go to open a bank account together ... the less remains in the ink better. If not, sooner or later end up throwing the dishes at his head.

Moving in together means giving up many things and see how others will invade. He is going to bring that pet to which you so much, and you strive to buy the table so horrible. Welcome to the world of concessions. The floor is of the two, try to stop the mania in the door, or one of the two will run away.

Be tolerant. And if there's something you do not like, tell him, but punish him with bad faces or discussion. Are you nervous about your parejause your toothpaste, do not flush the toilet, or changing things around ... have a problem. If your guy is a complete disaster, talk to him. Sure there are things you can overlook, and of course some do not.

And he will do the same for you. Our advice: if you know your guy has hobbies that take you out of my wits, and plans changed when you live together ... better think twice before taking this step. Let's face it, he must like it as it is, with its good and bad things. Spend more time with a partner is the reason for living together.

But sometimes there are "too much" intimacy and need space for yourself. Keep up your hobbies, go with your friends and go home without it. Returning sure that you want some more. Being stuck like glue is not good. Inside, more privacy that you have to call a friend or read Cosmo. Going to live together is a very important step but remember to continue to maintain your own privacy.

The best thing is you're ready, enjoy and do not give up soon. Living with your partner also has its good things, right? With patience and determination, everything is accomplished. Do not have a partner and are looking for the perfect guy for you? Discover our "My Family", there are thousands of guys waiting!

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