Wednesday, April 13, 2011

D-Day: Meet the parents

It takes some time with your partner and you are doing great. Happiness smiles but you miss one small detail: you have not met their parents. If you're feeling tachycardia just hear the word "mother", calm down and follow our 6 tips to impress. Appearances matter, and your in-laws are going to look you up and down.

It is important to choose the right clothes for the first appointment with the parents of your partner. Dress for the occasion, it is not the same knowledge in a wedding on a barbecue. It is best not to give free rein to the imagination, but casual formal dresses. Also, avoid very bold looks without giving up your own style, which is seen to have personality.

Get help with your kid, and if it is that everything looks good, think: what clothes your mother would like you to put yourself? You may be like your mother looks like a lot. The most important thing is that you are comfortable. And be yourself If you're not, they will notice you corseted and more nervous.

If an informal meeting, do not ever go to the hairdresser. Become a ponytail and highlight your natural beauty. Avoid eccentricities and give the feeling that you have prepared too. A beautiful bag or a good perfume will help give you a touch of elegance. And if your mother likes some of what you wear, you are half way done and a good topic of conversation.

It is important to control the makeup and jewelry, is the maxim "less is more." No big eye-catching earrings and makeup, the less conspicuous the better. Ask your child, your mother may be one that never used lipstick. Sure, your mother will ask you some questions to see if you care for your child as she does.

Answer what you answer, remember: your food is unsurpassed, so his culinary skills never hurts. A strategy cruel, but sometimes it works, is to ally with your mother. This is messing with your parejahace something wrong, that will connect a little. At the end of the day, he will not have to be liked.

Do it with humor and education, do not be too bad. Your father is probably closer and more enjoyable. Sometimes a smile is enough to conquer the father of your child. Ask him about his profession or take an interest in some "war stories." I love it. It's okay to bring a small gift in the first visit.

But make no mistake, this is just a detail. Surely a plant, flowers or a bottle of wine is good idea. Ask before your child what they might like, not whether they are abstinent. Finally: do not panic. Normally the concerns of parents disappear over time as the relationship takes hold. Above all, do not give up your personality and style to please them, also will notice.

In the end it's all about chemistry. If not congeniáis, do not worry too much, the important thing is to like your partner, not them. Still have not found that guy? Do not miss "My Romance", where thousands of kids are waiting to meet you.

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