Tuesday, July 26, 2011

The secret of a happy marriage is ... cuddles!

Ok, a little 'you might suspect: the perfect wedding ... it feeds on pampering. That is, not so much the sexual life and its intensity and frequency that affects the strength of a marriage relationship, because the sweetness and tenderness between husband and wife, who express themselves through their traditional gestures of pampering.

This says a survey conducted by the expert reports of British Paula Hall, who works for the popular online dating site Parship, and was interviewed by the Daily Mail. In practice, a couple who knows how to keep alive the physical contact through hugging and stroking is surely destined to last very long.


After all, what could be more beautiful than an elderly couple still able to pamper each other? But we see the study in question and the physical but also psychological explanation of why the marriage is winning cuddle to keep alive in a relationship: "Pamper not only gives the pleasure of the senses, but also a feeling of comfort, security and companionship, which are equally important for a relationship, as well as in sex.

" Flawless, I would say. But the exchange of cuddly sweetness active in our bodies is also a hormone, oxytocin, "Oxytocin is produced by the touch - explains the Hall - as well as make us feel good, it also inspires us to touch more. This means that the more you touch, the more you hear, the more one wants to touch.

" In short, just like the pampering cherries, one leads to another and, eventually, this can only serve as an engine for stimulating sex life. In conclusion, one can safely assume that light discomfort in a marriage, rather than a thinning of sexual relations, it is precisely the collapse of pampering.

If you no longer wish to touch your partner in a caring way, maybe love is wearing thin. But if, instead, there is a crisis when you try to start from just pampering, I think you may be able to recover and very much in terms of understanding and intimacy.

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