Friday, April 1, 2011

How to avoid falling in love always the same kind of guy

Do you feel that is repeated over and over again the same struggle in each of your relationships? Is your kid today is a reflection of your ex? Many girls are attracted by the same people, and therefore are traced the relationships to each other. Discover how to avoid relationships Déjà-Vu. For starters, think about who your ex was actually what was and what qualities of character you could not live? What triggered the breakup? Take your time and write a paper cons of your relationship.

Try to define as accurately as possible such defects as: Was your ex selfish? Add other examples as situations was there he put her interests before yours? Also think about what were those qualities that I was your ex, which were so wonderful that you could not imagine life without him.

Would you know how to identify them in your new boy? This way you can avoid not to start relations with the same people. "Love is blind" is as popular a saying as true. Normally we meet someone and fell in love from head to toe. The first small flaws seem charming quirks. But after a while, these "features wonderful" make the relationship is an ordeal.

Then we are in a wait in vain, hoping that our small change. If in the early stages of the relationship, you begin to see behavior that remind you of your ex, try to stop it immediately. You can always be exceptions in which your child to react in a negative way in a particular situation, but if it is repeated more than you need not fear anything.

Even so, pay attention to these details before getting involved too much in the relationship. Of course you should not notice the error only your guy, but you must realize your own mistakes. If you always choose the same type of person, that is for some reason. Maybe if you look at selfish people, may be partly because you're so.

Or the opposite, if you are altruistic, you may want a guy totally opposite to you. You must be self-critical. Discover who you are, what you expect from a relationship and what is not going to allow. Listen to your needs and be consistent. Perhaps so, not relive get a new version based on your previous relationship.

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