Alcohol usual "help" for women, first of intimacy with your partner. Does that sound "strange," absurd? Yet it is precisely this: it is, in fact, according to a study by solid U.S. researcher Kathryn Lakeland about 3 thousand women of childbearing age, between 18 and 50 years. Meanwhile, the cold statistics: almost half of the sample said to use alcohol before "face", so to speak, sexual intercourse, to be able to let go more easily and overcome their inhibitions.
With the help of a few drinks, in fact, go wild under the sheets would seem more natural and also the quality of the erotic services they would benefit. Too bad that, then remember what you have done a few hours earlier and, alas, often those who get a little 'less automatic. A few percentage: four out of ten women admitted that they had to resort to drinking during the first night of love with his fiancé, while an alarming 75%, alcohol use is always before sex with their partners (including partners husbands and long-term).
A crazy amount. A to attempt an analysis, as for the dry numbers tell us, it appears that performance anxiety, a problem in the past almost exclusively male, it is also transmitted to the female population. The sexual life, in fact, is becoming less and less that magical time of deep sharing (leaving the bodies to get to the heart, the deepest emotions, feelings) that it should be, and increasingly a sort of trophy to show off " maybe the girls.
The more partners you can boast of having seduced into the same "wild nights", the more it proves to be true contemporary women, similar to the four stars of Sex & The City. Although, remember, that's a show, pure fiction, not a model "real." According to the author of the study, alcohol is for women to lose control of himself, and do things that, to be sober, get them to do, with the same ease, only after reaching an agreement with the partner that would require much longer.
Do not want to appear bigoted, because it is not in my nature to be, but I also, at times, in listening to the "erotic exploits" (Battiato mon amour) of some friend or acquaintance, I asked myself, "and then"? Where is the complicity, the real sensuality, the pleasure shared? Perhaps it would be more appropriate before drunk, see if you really want to experience an intimacy made of occasional reports, or at least wonder why it is essential not to be fully self to live it the better, even with its companion .
But then you know, not to get too many questions, sometimes it's better. 
With the help of a few drinks, in fact, go wild under the sheets would seem more natural and also the quality of the erotic services they would benefit. Too bad that, then remember what you have done a few hours earlier and, alas, often those who get a little 'less automatic. A few percentage: four out of ten women admitted that they had to resort to drinking during the first night of love with his fiancé, while an alarming 75%, alcohol use is always before sex with their partners (including partners husbands and long-term).
A crazy amount. A to attempt an analysis, as for the dry numbers tell us, it appears that performance anxiety, a problem in the past almost exclusively male, it is also transmitted to the female population. The sexual life, in fact, is becoming less and less that magical time of deep sharing (leaving the bodies to get to the heart, the deepest emotions, feelings) that it should be, and increasingly a sort of trophy to show off " maybe the girls.
The more partners you can boast of having seduced into the same "wild nights", the more it proves to be true contemporary women, similar to the four stars of Sex & The City. Although, remember, that's a show, pure fiction, not a model "real." According to the author of the study, alcohol is for women to lose control of himself, and do things that, to be sober, get them to do, with the same ease, only after reaching an agreement with the partner that would require much longer.
Do not want to appear bigoted, because it is not in my nature to be, but I also, at times, in listening to the "erotic exploits" (Battiato mon amour) of some friend or acquaintance, I asked myself, "and then"? Where is the complicity, the real sensuality, the pleasure shared? Perhaps it would be more appropriate before drunk, see if you really want to experience an intimacy made of occasional reports, or at least wonder why it is essential not to be fully self to live it the better, even with its companion .
But then you know, not to get too many questions, sometimes it's better.
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