"I like everything about you, except you ..." Or, what most often happens, I like you, I love, but I wish you were more loving, more serious, or more workers, more consistent, more ambitious, more fun, or more attentive, more surprising ... etc. By Alicia Misrahi of The Red Suitcase My friend Lydia is a clear example of a woman who falls for a guy and then he realizes that he has left dazzled by everything except man.
In his case, is an impressive physique, but may be the culture, status, intelligence, the current account, the sense of humor ... Any property except the man as a whole. Lidia associated with a particular physical form to be idealized and, as you know your boyfriend realizes it's not what I expected.
Say: "before was not so", but what happens is that did not see it that way. Please do not confuse the men who want to change with toxic people. For some women the first can be fully recommended, while for others it will be unbearable. The latter only serve to destroy the lives of their partners.
The big question is, how far you can change a man? Or a person who, in many cases, it becomes the same. Of course, we can not change someone's character or his attitude to life, or their world view, nor customs, nor their dreams or aspirations ... In short, nothing really important or profound.
Yes we can change some little things like learn to remove the dishes from the table when finished eating. But if it does not include dishes or clothes, or the stuff you use, or tools, or the hairs when you shave ... just get "lucky" to collect the dishes and leaving everything else follow through.
If not taking it anymore, better find another. The first warning sign that we were wrong to choose a man or that we should raise our level of tolerance is thinking, "no big deal" or as we say laughingly, "is impossible" or "a shambles" or " is a passing craze "or" has been just one day "or" is a peculiar man "or" everyone has their hobbies "or" has some weird stuff, but it's so ...
sweet. " Under the rule of the mole (ie mole just a nice looking with time and stress of the relationship a wart), everything now seems strange or strikes us eventually become something intolerable. More or less as with some new shoes that at first seems to tighten a little and then produce excruciating pain (theorem shoes).
It would be easier to identify the danger if we might say to ourselves: "and change", but do not often say so explicitly. However, that does not mean they do not expect it strongly within us. Error! In fact, there are very few things we can change someone for what they assume better endurance and dilute all that makes us happy for that person.
At the end of the day, until we have flaws (yes, oddly enough). And if it is unbearable, we'll always have Paris ... (Ie, take the first flight to Paris and leave as quickly as possible.) Better learn to love each other to accept our failures, our shortcomings and weaknesses. Perhaps the only thing we should change our expectations are excessive and unrealistic.
For a love more real. 
In his case, is an impressive physique, but may be the culture, status, intelligence, the current account, the sense of humor ... Any property except the man as a whole. Lidia associated with a particular physical form to be idealized and, as you know your boyfriend realizes it's not what I expected.
Say: "before was not so", but what happens is that did not see it that way. Please do not confuse the men who want to change with toxic people. For some women the first can be fully recommended, while for others it will be unbearable. The latter only serve to destroy the lives of their partners.
The big question is, how far you can change a man? Or a person who, in many cases, it becomes the same. Of course, we can not change someone's character or his attitude to life, or their world view, nor customs, nor their dreams or aspirations ... In short, nothing really important or profound.
Yes we can change some little things like learn to remove the dishes from the table when finished eating. But if it does not include dishes or clothes, or the stuff you use, or tools, or the hairs when you shave ... just get "lucky" to collect the dishes and leaving everything else follow through.
If not taking it anymore, better find another. The first warning sign that we were wrong to choose a man or that we should raise our level of tolerance is thinking, "no big deal" or as we say laughingly, "is impossible" or "a shambles" or " is a passing craze "or" has been just one day "or" is a peculiar man "or" everyone has their hobbies "or" has some weird stuff, but it's so ...
sweet. " Under the rule of the mole (ie mole just a nice looking with time and stress of the relationship a wart), everything now seems strange or strikes us eventually become something intolerable. More or less as with some new shoes that at first seems to tighten a little and then produce excruciating pain (theorem shoes).
It would be easier to identify the danger if we might say to ourselves: "and change", but do not often say so explicitly. However, that does not mean they do not expect it strongly within us. Error! In fact, there are very few things we can change someone for what they assume better endurance and dilute all that makes us happy for that person.
At the end of the day, until we have flaws (yes, oddly enough). And if it is unbearable, we'll always have Paris ... (Ie, take the first flight to Paris and leave as quickly as possible.) Better learn to love each other to accept our failures, our shortcomings and weaknesses. Perhaps the only thing we should change our expectations are excessive and unrealistic.
For a love more real.
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