Tuesday, March 15, 2011

The problem of labels

He said the nihilist vivant Up in the Air with his partner of adventures that he labels people and their luggage, which was more useful ... and comfortable. When we simply accept stereotypes and generalizations often mental laziness or refusal to have ever suffered. Thus, when all agree in saying that, for example, "all men are equal", that commonly used in more critical if not outright hostile, what we are doing is generalizing based solely on a negative experience.

Let's see, girls, of course regrettable that there are men and-generalizing, there are certainly typical male behaviors that make us the creeps, but then to disqualify any sex as a brutish, selfish and unscrupulous subspecies, is a long way . In the background we all know that there are good men, men are incredible, they deprived of the protective shell that gives precisely the identity of the male are wonderful.

We are different, thank God, we have some virtues, and they other, our understanding welcomes her energy, her creativity makes sense in our fertile consciousness. All you have to do with them is let them know we know, we understand and do not need protection from us, but quite the opposite.

And we then we would do well to do the same, strive to see who they really are, otherwise we are in our way, a handful of brewers see a long match platitudes about us and our anatomy. I mention this because we navigate in a world that often falls in the unnatural, requiring us to stop mujeresque partly be if we fall into the trap of self-demanding, competitive, and thoughtless absolute values \u200b\u200bof maximum and superficial topics not reflect the reality in all its complexity and richness.

Should I have a job to be absorbing an accomplished woman?, Should I get married to be happy? Label, either positively or negatively, is a mistake because it departs from the truth of life, however much more soothing and comfortable to accept politically correct thoughts or truths acceptable in our environment.

What I tell you, fellow women, is that just being awake and connected to your life inside and you will find these truths to guide you, probably different from the others. Many thinkers mulling over the truth of things for thousands of years and now we want to put it in jam jars .. or Tupperware.

By Dr Michelle Nielsen

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